Q. My parents are divorced and both have remarried, where do I seat them at the reception?

A. The best thing to do is have tables so each of your parents and the groom's parents "host" their own table. I suggest three tables so that your mother, your father and your parents-in-law have their own table of family and friends. This will solve any worries about sitting your parents near each other on the 'parents table' and each parent will feel as if they have an important place at your wedding reception.

Q. I don't want to have numbers on the tables at the reception, can you suggest some words we can use instead?

A. It is a great idea to name, rather than number your guest tables. I have thought of some words which you might like - love, cherish, happiness, romance, commitment, forever, together, friendship, respect, adoration, devotion, passion, treasure. An alternate idea is using the word "love" in other languages - for example amor (Spanish), amore (Italian), amour (French), agapo (Greek), lieben (German), aiyoku (Japanese), elkse (Danish), kasih (Indonesian), rakastaa (Finnish), beminnen (Dutch), karlek (Swedish), mal wees oor (Afrikaans). Colours are another idea or seasonal flowers.